Dating Asian woman has always been mens fantasy, but it has never been easier than today. Thanks to internet and global communication dating Asian girls is as easy as clicking a mouse. There are several things you have to remember before you start dating Asian women and one of them is that most Asian girls that you are going to meet come from a different culture. There are differences between Filipino culture, Thai, Japanese, Chinese or other but they have a lot in common. Most of these cultures are based on values like honour, respect, generosity etc. I have several hints for you on how to survive the first date and earn enough brownie points to secure next rendez vous. Be at your best behaviour at your first date. Don’t try too hard to be yourself. If you have habits like picking your nose, smoking, drinking too much, burping then the first date is probably not the best time for these things to show. Be a gentleman. This is the simple receipt and answer to the often asked question – what is that Asian girls really look for in man? Impress your lady by holding the door open for her, letting her in your car, helping her with coat etc. It does not take much effort and guarantees good first impression. Keep your first date simple. You don’t have to go over your head to plan the first date. That will let you concentrate more on the girl less on making your plan work. Besides you don’t even know yet what the girl likes or even if you going to like her. Show up on time. Being late almost always turns the woman off. If you know that it’s a bad traffic leave earlier, if you get stuck make sure to call her. Don’t let her wait. Best place to meet her? Well, it’s definitely you who have to decide. Don’t ever leave this decision to your lady. Asian women are looking for a self confident (not cocky) man who gives them the sense of security and the man that can find himself in any situation. Pick a place were you feel comfortable. If you know much about wine and fine food take her to the good restaurant, if you have great body go to the beach. Simple ideas like that should do the trick. One thing to keep in mind – her being comfortable is more important than you. Give her the sense of security that she is looking for. Chances are she won’t feel safe and relaxed with a guy that she just met where there are no other people around. Don’t take her for a drive to the desert in your black Jaguar or lonely walk in the park at dusk. Leave those romantic spots for later. At your first date don’t look around for other women. Make your girl feel special. First date is all about gathering points for all the things you do right and loosing those points for small mistakes. You have to learn to play the game and the prize will come. Do not ever talk down about her culture. Show that you respect her and her heritage. If you notice that she is not too much into discussing her origin just drop the topic. Remember that she is a unique individual and not a whole nation that you talk to. Once again – treat her like someone really special; treat her like a lady that she is and you’ll be fine. Lastly, showing affection in public is usually a taboo in Asian culture, so my advice would be to refrain from that on a first date. Try to read her body language, don’t force anything. Good-bye kiss is usually fine. Remember, you have to be patient with Asian ladies. If this girl likes you it will pay off, otherwise there is danger you will become ‘first date’ professional and we don’t want that. Stick to these few simple rules, get to know the girl and you’ll be successful in dating Asian women.

  Raising accessibility and popularity of internet in Asia is without a doubt a source a major breakthrough in dating on this continent. It lets Asians communicate cross-border with friends and lovers in neighbouring countries but also make new friendships worldwide. It also brings in outsiders – Westerners. If you are a ‘Westerner’ dating an Asian can be one of the most refreshing and eye-opening experiences in your life. It’s not because it’s so much different, but simply because it will bring new values to your life and give you different perspective to dating, love and man/woman relationship. There are several fields where Asian approach to dating differs from our western understanding of this term. Let’s have a closer look at some of them. In Asian relationship man and woman have traditionally been assigned slightly different roles. Man is the provider, the guardian of the house. Women role is to comfort man, to take care of the house and be the heart and soul of the household. If we look several decades back it wasn’t much different in Europe or even America. Asians seems to be simply more attached to these traditions – at least those living in the environment that cherishes tradition. Without a doubt, this is one of the reasons why western men look for Asian women for long lasting relationships and very often marriage – they seek these traditional family values. When westerner says date, we usually think going out for a dinner, caching a movie etc. When Asian people think of a date what they have in mind is something more permanent, long-lasting and meaningful from the very beginning. They treat relationship more seriously right from the start. Don’t be surprised if you come across Asian dating service that says ‘for long-lasting relationships only’ or ‘Asian women for marriage’ or simply ‘Asian brides’. It does not necessarily mean that you go and order a bride or wife on that website. What it means is that those women are not looking for a one night stay. Of course, I have to stress that there are many different more of less legit services out there and some of them may be involved in marriage frauds. When you look around for Asian dating service beware of those. More illegal activities include human trafficking, pornography or child abuse. These can get you in serious trouble, far more grim that just loosing your money. This is unfortunately specifically true with Asian dating services (Vietnamese, Thai, Chinese) Do your research first, get other peoples opinion, find trustworthy sites before you sign up. The easiest way to do this is to consult a site that reviews Asian dating sites professionally. Another aspect of dating that lost a lot of its meaning in western world is family. Showing respect to Asian girl’s parents is one of great importance. If you date online from overseas you won’t probably have an opportunity to meet her parent for quite a while, but when you do remember to be respectful and humble. Chances are, if they don’t get to like you your relationship may fall apart. That is how strong parents influence is. Remember, that traditionally in Asia parents were choosing spouses for their children. Respect her and her heritage. Culture is very important for Asians. Try to understand, listen, show her that you want to learn about traditions and culture of her homeland. Don’t be an ignorant and never talk down of her culture. Show that you care even if you don’t. There is one more thing to say at the end, just to be clear. For some of you it may seem obvious for some maybe not. Many men make this mistake. They treat all women that have Asian eyes the same. Understand that – if the girl has been living in a western country for a longer time, maybe all her live her perception of Asian culture is different that the girls that was raised in conservative Asian family in China, Vietnam, Thailand or other. It doesn’t mean that she lost contact with Asian culture. Tradition is often, or should I say usually, carried from generation to generation even if living overseas, it’s just not that strong. Try to get to know the girl a bit better before you burry yourself asking questions about her Asian heritage that she doesn’t know answers to. Be respectful, listen, learn and you’ll be successful in dating Asian women.